Hugs and Kicks
Scene from Jesus of Nazareth, 1977
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hxCcvCZkaJc
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hxCcvCZkaJc
"I see good practice in member care as being rooted in the example of
the loving care offered by Christ, the “Good Practitioner”. Christ’s model of
relationship with us serves as a foundation for our interaction with others and
for the good practice principles that we develop for member care (see the
Figure below—JC as GP). The middle two dimensions of being comforted/challenged
are normative for us, and reflect many of His encounters with disciples in the
New Testament. He is both tender and at times tough in His relentless love for
us. The extremes on the continuum would represent “worst practice” and do not
represent Christ’s relationship with His people. Likewise, they should not
reflect our relationship with mission/aid personnel—for example, overly
protecting them and not sufficiently challenging them (coddling), or blaming
them for having needs and frailties (condemning). Member care, then, is as much
about comfort as it is challenge. It involves lots of hugs with some kicks
(culturally appropriate forms) and lots of affirmation and some admonition (I
Thes. 5:11,14).
JC as GP
coddler Comforter Challenger condemner
placater Peace-giver Provoker punisher
Good Practice
Adapted from Going Global: A Member Care Model for Best Practice, Kelly
O'Donnell, Doing Member Care Well,
2002, p. 15
Pax Dei
Sometimes people resist the gospel [the
good news—which of course implies
that there is some bad news] not
because they think it false but because they perceive it [appropriately sometimes] as a threat to their
culture, especially the fabric of their society, and their national or tribal
solidarity [some just find it to be simply not relevant--practically, intellectually, or based on the behaviors of those individuals, groups, countries, etc. who "follow" the gospel].
To some extent this cannot be avoided. Jesus
Christ is a disturber as well as a peacemaker. He is Lord, and demands our
total allegiance [not just inflated/manipulative rhetoric
but a conclusion and consensus based on the body of writings about Him and Christian
life, gathered together in a compendium called the New Testament]. Thus,
some first-century Jews saw the gospel as undermining Judaism and accused Paul
of "teaching men everywhere against the people, the law, and this
place," i.e., the temple (Acts 21:28). Similarly, some first-century
Romans feared for the stability of the state, since in their view the Christian
missionaries, by saying that "there is another King, Jesus," were
being disloyal to Caesar and advocating customs which it was not lawful for
Romans to practise (Acts 16:21; 17:7). Still today Jesus challenges many of the
cherished beliefs and customs of every culture and society [including—and especially perhaps--the practices,
lifestyles, and beliefs within the various Christian churches and traditions
and certainly our own personal areas that need His disturbing and peacemaking light to shine on them].
1 comment:
Ah..! what a lovely picture [posted on www.membercareassociates.org] What a lovely remembrance. I was thumbing through the later version of Dave Pollock’s book on TCKS last week, where it talks about his graduation to heaven… he passed away on my birthday, so I never forget him. After reading their book, I felt “normal” for the first time in my life, no kidding… I finally figured out who I was and what had happened to me! I was a TCK! I made my daughter read it as a teenager and she went on to do her master’s thesis about it.. thanks for including us, Esly Carvalho
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